First of all I have some bad news, there is no such thing as
Mr. or Mrs. Right for you.
Now that I have said that you are not going to be disappointed in the dating
processes.
Here is the categories of people you will find.
1. Mr./Mrs. Over my dead body.
2. Mr./Mrs. Well, ok maybe just one date.
3. Mr./Mrs. Well, maybe with a lot of work.
4. Mr./Mrs. Pretty Damn Close.
If you find a 3 you should take the time to get to know them better. If you find a 4 married them after
the first date, because they are hard to come by. hehe.. You might ask, Martin how do I find Mr./Mrs.
Petty Damn Close. Well, the answer is right in front of you. In the way couples find each other, opposites attract. Have you ever noticed that if you have a girl is nice and easy to get along with she will be with a guy that is a total ass hole. And if the guy is the sensitive and caring type he will be with a cold women. Well to get the right one you will have to reverse the opposites effect. This will not be easy, you are breaking years of trends. You will find that by acting sensitive and really caring will turn most girls off. Those girl are not going to be looking for you they are looking for their fathers. You will need to find the girl that is interested, when you are you not the playing male image,
This will be the one you should be with. Remember this girl my not look as good as the others, but what is looks when you have someone that loves you. Looks are external, it is the inner
person that really counts. Most likely the girl that is right for you is right under your nose. It is the girl that is there for you when you are down. The girl that you talk
to about problems and like to be with. If you do not have someone like that in your life, you should work on finding a friend that is that way.
Remember this girl most likely will not want to be your lover at first. She will not want to break trend and be your lover. This is where you will have problems. I suggest you have her read this book.
The best advise I can offer you is to be yourself. When you are being yourself and you find the mate that likes you for yourself then you will find the one that
you should be with. |